We all know that sex can be a challenge when you are in a relationship, especially if it becomes stagnant or if you are looking for something more exciting. Threesomes can be an incredible and unique sexual experience. If you are considering engaging in a threesome with your wife and her best friend, there are some tips you should consider in order to make the experience enjoyable for everyone involved.
First and foremost, make sure everyone is on the same page. Talk to your wife about it and listen to her thoughts and opinions. Is this something she is interested in or is it more of a fantasy for you? Discuss the boundaries and limits of the encounter, this is important for everyone involved. Are you all comfortable talking about what will and will not happen? It is okay to set boundaries regarding what you’re not comfortable with. Make sure that everyone is informed of these boundaries and agree to them.
Another important factor to consider when having sex with your wife and her best friend is communication. Talk about what each person is comfortable doing and like it should be discussed in any sexual setting, communicative consent is an absolute must. All parties must be comfortable and consenting to the activity.
Threesomes can also bring up feelings of insecurity or jealousy. To prevent this, make sure the focus is on pleasure for all three of you. Talk about how you are feeling and be honest with each other. Reassure each other that there are no feelings of insecurity or jealousy — reassure your wife that you are not replacing her with her best friend.
When it comes down to the actual act, there are some things to keep in mind. Start slowly and make sure everyone is comfortable. Have plenty of lubricant and condoms handy (if any penetrative sex is involved). If any penetrative sex is involved, make sure the partner being penetrated is comfortable with the amount and speed of penetration. Take it slow and be sure to pleasure each other orally.
If one person wants more attention than another, make sure to take turns and pay attention to the other person’s pleasure. Talk dirty to each other, keep eye contact, and be mindful of body language — these can all enhance the experience.
Finally, talk about the experience after it is over. When all is said and done, get together afterward and talk about what happened; ask each other what felt good and what you didn’t like. Discuss personal boundaries, and talked about what you’d like to do differently next time.
Threesomes can be an incredibly memorable experience if all parties communicate openly and honestly, and take into consideration each individual’s boundaries. Communicate and be honest, and keep the focus on each person’s pleasure. With these tips, having a threesome with your wife and her best friend can be an unforgettable experience.
